You know how we tend to take our loved ones for granted until its too late ... well I know this just didn't apply to the Patton family. I guess you guys knew more than most how much Charmian loved you and she definately knew how much you loved her. I cant even start to imagine your loss but hopefully just knowing that your mum and wife was loved the world over (literally!). To the rest of us ... love now like you've never loved before nor will again!.